For some strange reason, I get unsolicited requests from people that would seem to be those I have no interests in. I would come to my attention that I probably should create a page for those that are not too bright, and therefore need some guidance.
First, I am not looking for a long distance relationship. I am sure that they work for many, just not for me. I know this may sound selfish, but if you are convinced I am the perfect guy for you, than you may want to consider moving much closer to me. If you want to have some assurance that it would work out, why not try chatting with me as friends. You may also consider visiting my Relationship Websume as well.
Next, if your profile looks more like a Porn Promotion, or you seem to only have something free to offer, you are not going to be of my interests. I have no need for porn. To me, there is little value in looking at things and getting excited over something I can't have. This is especially true if I have to pay for it. If I know you, and you want to send me nudes, that is between you and I - however, I have no interests in porn sites. In addition, no interests in freebies. Nothing in this world is completely free. Even Free email is advertisemnt supported. And if I have to jump through hoops and get 100 other people to jumpt through hoops, it is not free. I been there, done that. Oh, and by the way, all I got was SPAM. Since they were given a unique email address, I do not get their trash any more.
If you post a public comment on something that is intended to be private, I am just going to have a lack of trust in the ability that you know what you are doing. Private messages are just that, private.
If you are living somewhere, but claim to be somewhere else - I am not going to trust you. If I can't trust you, than there is no point in being in your friends list. In addition, if you want me to add you as a friend, expect to get a message requesting that I know a little about you first. I am looking for new friends, and therefore that is the point of having a profile. However, I am not going to add just anyone. That is a sign of desperacy, and stupidity. Why do you think that all those 12 year old boys and girls have 999,999,999 friends in their list? Half of them, are probably predators looking to be that special friend of a 12 year old.